By Marwa Allavi-Osmani
For WGSS 205, Marwa Allavi-Osmani created a website entitled "Manly Men," as a challenge to representations of toxic masculinity.
Marwa wrote: "Toxic masculinity is a constant issue that is being brought up everywhere in the world. U.S. society and the social norms are just now beginning to evolve, slowly accepting people for who they are. However, the growth and change with this ideology has not progressed far, considering all the hate and judgment that many of young boys and men are still receiving. This stereotypes and standards men and boys are being put under, that they have to be this big strong man who has to conceal any emotion for fear of being called weak, gay, and feminine, makes them feel obligated to only dress and think a certain way.
"A woman, for example, could go out wearing “boys clothing” and no one would think much of it, whereas if a man were to go out in “women’s clothing” people would give them weird looks, judging them based on their choice of clothing, and making assumptions about them, without even knowing who the person is. The main outlet that these boys and men must freely express themselves is through their choice of clothing when their words or actions are not enough to show people that men can be free to choose what they want to wear and who they want to be.
"My hope with this website is to educate people and show them a side that they didn't see before and help them understand that clothes don’t have a gender. I want boys and men to learn that it is okay for them to be who they are and be free to express themselves through their clothing without fear or shame of what the people around them think."
Marwa Allavi-Osmani is a first year student at CSUSM, majoring in Biochemistry.